I posted the link, and this comment:
Wow, some Arizona schools are banning Obama's speech.
What followed was a veritable maelstrom on a Facebook page. I have close to 300 friends from across the country. These include people from my many walks of life. A lot are former newspaper colleagues from five newspapers as well as family members from my side and my husband's. Most of my family are liberal democrats, whereas some of my husband's are right-wing republicans, some quite religious.Normally politics doesn't enter my Facebook page. But I put it there. It is one of the joys of my layoff from newspapers after 27 years to feel free to be able to more publicly proclaim my views. As a reporter and editor, I often felt it my professional duty to maintain objectivity in the world, and had I been on Facebook during my career -- I wasn't, I discovered it after I was unemployed -- I would not have use it as a political forum.
No sooner had I put up the link and the comment than my sister-in-law immediately said she can understand why parents would not want their children watching the speech. This spurred aggressive comments from one of my most liberal journalist friends, who is now working in Florida, who labeled my relative's views "the epitome of ignorance."
Suddenly one of my most conservative journalist friends, still in Arizona, was taking on my Florida friend, complete with links to stories of his own, and they were having at it for comment after comment. Surprisingly, another person I seldom hear from leapt in, a friend my children's school, and on it went.
I found myself in the role of moderator. And I kind of liked it. It was what I used to do in my last job at azcentral.com, where I tried to find the most interesting stories and post them, and hope that readers would comment on them. Each time a reader comments it's a "click," and that is what we wanted.
In Arizona, a lot of schools are sending permission slips home with kids so parents can "opt out" of the president's speech. Some districts won't show the speech at all.
At one point, this is what I wrote on the Facebook page. It is my opinion on the debate:
Hey, I made your blog too!
ReplyDeleteI hate to get in pissing matches on Facebook, which is why I stopped commenting on that post after awhile. I just think each side sees evil in the other side and that's that. I had an argument with my mother-in-law today who is even MORE conservative than me. She was certain that those on the left are pure evil.
I know that in Facebook, where no one can convey nuance, anything opinionated sounds strident, which is why I'm hesitant to comment on big issues. But when I do, I try to keep to the issue and not make it personal. I realize thoughtful and well-meaning people can be opposed to each other. We should all recognize that. The opposite of your viewpoint isn't necessarily evil. It's just opposite.
-Zube.